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I would talk to the CW about the baptism and let her know that mom wants to set it up, just so she's aware of what is going on. If you do not have a problem taking the baby to the baptism, then it could be an arranged between you and the Mom and the CW would know when and where, etc.
As for the ears, when they are so young, it heals very quickly. I wouldn't do it to my own child as I tend to let them make those decisions for themselves when they are old enough, but since it's a foster child and Mom wants it and it's culturally acceptable, then I would try to find a place to get it done.
I would talk to my CW about both issues before I proceeded with either. I like to let my CW be the one who decides and not me. It keeps me from being the one to say no and puts all that on the CW.
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