[Daisy1339]

I think I'm missing something.....

You went over to his place before Christmas and that's when he said he wanted "E" to enjoy the lights? So this would be a second invite?

How old are the neighbors "kids" and will they be there, too?

It really sounds like a miscommunication. Maybe he just wanted you to meet another couple to have adult time with and maybe he assumed you would get a sitter since he already had you over with "E" the other time?

He sounds like a decent guy, overall, who likes you and your DH ( and "E"). Maybe he just doesn't know how to invite you over without "E". It doesn't mean that he doesn't like him anymore. I'm like you, I get offended first and then usually regret it. Cool off, sista! I think you guys must be pretty cool to hang out with if this guy wants to expand your friend base with him.