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Janey,
I'm not always sure that it's callousness that makes families say "get over it." In part, I suspect it's denial and self-preservation - "I don't want to have to deal with it, myself let's pretend it never happened." Recognize that it's the same way some people act after a death or divorce: "I can't see why she/he isn't over it... they need to move on, etc."
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Blessings!
Kathy,
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Birth mom to D (10/4/72)
Mom to J(7/6/76) and S (7/26/78)
"Weeping may linger for the night,
but joy comes with the morning." (Psalm 30:5)
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