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Old 01-09-2009, 12:56 PM
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Originally Posted by aclee
I have two ways to deal with tantrums in kids. It really depends on WHY they are tantruming (when they are at E's age) if they are having a tantrum because they can't convey something to you, or are confused or upset about something that they can't express, I do soothe them. If they are tantruming from a "no" or an "you can't have that" they they get ignored.

ITA...I answered from the scenario of E wanting something he shouldn't have, since that is what Storm started it out with.

If our sons are having a tantrum because their toy isn't working quite right, or they need to tell me something that is huge in their world, we talk and work it out.

But if it's just an "I want...wahhhhh!" then my above responses cover that.
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