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Old 01-09-2009, 12:07 PM
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Originally Posted by blessedbybug
The most important thing I have learned is to remain calm to not let him know I'm upset.

Most definitely!! Now we can talk about their conflict, but we make sure it doesn't become "our" conflict by getting upset along with them.

I would guess E's tantrums will probably be the hardest for the next 6-12 mos?? Then they can talk more, and for us, are less likely to tantrum.

Just remember if you think he is big and hard to manage now, they only get bigger and stronger, so it's best to find a way that works now.
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5/23/06- our sweet baby Samuel Miles born
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