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None at all--only hugs.
This is so very hard. I'm assuming daughter knows nothing of the impending visit. I'd be more worried about her losing trust if/when she finds out than of the fallout from the visit. That might cause big damage to whatever attachment she currently has.
I know the docs feel that either way it will cause trouble. Have y'all considered bringing up her biomom's visit in therapy and letting her decide?
And, by the way, I teach 7th graders. I have a number of regular ed kids who are working on the 2nd grade level, so I'd welcome a kid who is able to work at 5th grade. I really hope her return to public school is a good thing for her.
I'll pray for wisdom and strength for you and your kids, mary.
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