[jllambert]

Originally Posted by Withay

Perhaps Grandpa realizes that it would be better for 'G' to remain where she is, with the only family she really knows. It could be that his mentioning it being too expensive for the attorney ishis way of telling grandma that it would be better. It may be that he can't find the words to tell her how he really feels.

Whatever the reason, it sounds a bit more like the grandparents are going to let her remain.

Would be be willing to have contact between her and them if you adopt?

I wish it was about grandpa caring about "G", but he has never seen her and is not related to her by blood. I think with him it really is about the money! Everyone was shocked he was footing the bill in the first place.
I am a little disappointed that grandma does not want to continue to see "G" until she offically can't have weekly visits any more, but maybe it is to hard for her knowing now she isn't going to get custody of her!
I do not dis-like the grandmother and would be will to keep in contact with her after adoption, but I am starting to think she may not want contact with us! That makes me sad for "G".