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I am sorry if I offended anyone with my ramblings. Sometimes I say/type things without thinking. Thank you for your input. I was able to speak with one of my best friends last night, she is a Birth-Mom and it was wonderful to get her insight. All Birth-Moms are different, just as all adoptive Moms are different, and all children are different - one sweeping statement cannot apply to everyone and I apologize if that's how I came across.
DH and I discussed it and only came up with more questions. This is a personal decision and while I do value the opinions, I realized last night I should not have posted the question. We have to make this decision based on what feels best for us - which we're still working on! Thanks again.
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