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JTIMES2, I suppose I ask the same as,Belle,I would think this is something She needs to be handed, before preenting the issue with you first. I believe it should be agreed upon by both, but especially..for now what is important is what emothe wants. I, as a firstmom, can tell you, just for a heads up...we are a strong group of women whom want what is best at the time, for our children to be loved and guided by sincere, loving, and confident parents. This comes across as you not having confidence in emom or your own feelings i.e.- "you would if it were you". Speaking for MOST firstmoms, we don't relinquish, then in 6 months, run into "our" children then snatch them away..we just don't. It is my opinion you should maybe consider this placement is not the one for you. If it were I would not place my baby with anybody whom had this much doubt or insecurity issues. JMHO, and I mean no disrespect, you wanted thoughts, please discuss this with DH. Regardless, I hope you get to be a Mommy soon, and good luck.
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