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Old 01-07-2009, 11:28 AM
StefB StefB is offline
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"We're attached"

This morning I had my daughter wrapped in her "Guatemala baby blanket," and we were dancing when those wonderful words, "we're attached," came out of her mouth. Now I know she was thinking "attached" as in the way her mittens are attached to her jacket, but I have my own interpretation! Since we had to work for months to become happily attached, it was music to my ears to hear her say that, whatever her intent.

I know plenty of forum members are struggling with attachment, particularly with so many bringing home older babies and toddlers (mine was only 9.5 months, but we struggled nonetheless). I guess I just wanted to share an image of what is down the road. My daughter and I are always working on some issue or other, but we've come so far and I continue to see positive changes in our relationship even this far past our homecoming.
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Stefanie
9/06/06 I-171H
9/08/06 Referral of sweet baby girl born 8/01/06
9/20/06 POA in Guatemala
10/02/06 In Family Court
11/15/06 DNA authorization
11/23/06 DNA taken and SWI
12/04/06 DNA match
12/14/06 Out of Family Court
12/27/06 Pre-approval
1/08/07 In PGN
1/18-22/07 Visit trip
2/14/07 KO (so, so sad)
2/15/07 Resubmit ("missing" document not missing)
4/13/07 OUT
4/30/07 PINK
5/14/07 Embassy appointment
5/17/07 Fly HOME! (arrival 5/18/07)
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