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I have a boy and a girl. My daughter has autism, and I made mention to the director of my angecy that I think a girl would benefit her for several reasons. However, I never really said I wanted a girl, and in my homestudy it read that while I thought a girl would benefit my daughter, we were open to either sex. We received the referral of a girl. So I am pretty sure my agency did that on purpose because of my situation. But I never requested a girl, because I didn't really have a major preference.
I have a ton of books to recommend, but none are specific to Korea adoption. I highly recommend the Holt forum boards though to understand the process more. They are extremely helpful!
Good luck! Enjoy the process!
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Jackie
Married to Chris 4/25/03
Mom to:
Carmela 4/16/04 (bio)
Joey 5/23/06 (bio) &
Juliana 5/29/08 (in Korea)
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10/18/08 - decided to adopt from KOREA! 
10/23/08 - application to agency 
11/04/08 - application approved
11/23/08 - homestudy completed
12/09/08 - Referral of a beautiful baby GIRL
12/12/08 - I600 filed in Philly USCIS
12/18/08 - fingerprints
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