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That was my reason for deciding to do straight adoption instead of Fostering... I was afraid I would not be strong enough to let the children go...
That was before I was denied... I have had alot more time to think about it and to think on my own strengths, emotions, the children, the families, etcetera... Now I feel that I will have the strength to send the children to their forever homes, be it their biological, kinship or adoptive homes. I know it will be hard, but I think I will come to terms with it and be okay, sad, but okay.
I think a good response would be honesty... Let that person know that it isn't easy, it's hard, it's sad, it's heartbreaking.... But, if not you, who?
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Wannabe SAHM - DOB 06-30-69 - no children (yet)
Still unemployed...
Started School for Early Childhood Education September 2009
Currently dating the Daddy of 2 teens & a toddler 
Diagnosed with Emphysema in November 2005
TTC on & off since December 2005
06-25-07 FosterCare/Adoption Application Denied
Two Miscarriage in 2008
Denied for SSI Disability in August 2009 (Started Appeal in September 2009)
OBAMA
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