I agree with everyone above who said go with the flow (pun intended
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Isabella had no interest, (she turned 3 on 11/25) then started going peepee at school, because all her little friends were. I finally just took off her diaper last week, (daytime only) and it worked. I'm not saying you should do this, at all, if J is actively resisting, that is ok!! I worried that I wasn't "doing my job" but i know that is so silly. Joanna is strong willed, like Bella - she will do it when she is ready and not a moment before - and I think that will be soon!