[Military Momma]

I would definitely take in all the suggestions above. BUT I would also put in, enjoy yourselves. Spend quality time with your referral. We only got two hours in the AM and 2 hours in the PM for the five days that we were in his region. We did a lot of physical contact, ie. hugs, kisses, soft voices, cooing, and cuddling. I think this helped so when we came back for the second visit, I did the same thing and he sort of "remembered" my touch.

Granted, this is just my observation but take it for what it is. My experience.

Hope this helps,