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Sounds like it is time for a very honest and open talk. Next time you have a visit, just take her to your home, where you can sit and talk. Taking her all over the place to show her a good time, isn't what your life together will really be like anyway.
But you do need to ask her, point blank, if she really wants to be adopted, or if she would prefer to just be fostered. Mybe it would be best if you just took her in as a foster child? Then, if sometime along the line she actually wants to be adopted you could pursue that.
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J, bio son: born Feb '96
T, adopted daughter: born July '96, adoption finalized Dec '06
E adopted son: born Sept '99, adopted November '05
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to hharm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
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