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Originally Posted by belleinblue1978
You know, if you change your mind, visits aren't confusing. I see my kid for between 8 and 10 hours a year. That doesn't confuse him, but he knows who I am and won't have to wonder. I'm not a mythical person, he knows all the cool things about me and the not so cool. There won't be the agony of trying to decide if he wants to contact me when he is older. I'll be a part of his life.
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Yeah... but visits weren't in the agreement I have with the adoptive parents... I'm still not sure visits would be the best thing for him, you know..?