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thank you for your input. technically i am in contact with the b-mom but she hasn't returned my last 2 phone calls (placed over the last 3 months) so i am guessing she is occupied with something. i thought to try the mutual friend again but without her calling me back i don't know.
i talked to my counselor about this and she felt that since the sibs are adults that i could contact them but she urged me to to some research and see what others have experienced. ultimately my goal is to find the b-dad so i can't go thru him.
dickons - did you have a random intermediary make the contact? i am trying to imagine who could this for me.
Much thanks for the warning of the potential pain and rejection.
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