[vernellinnj]

All I can say is if you want a child under the age of 3 you will likely have to foster as children in that age range are most often adopted by their foster parents. Having said that, you just never know. I've had my fosterchild for well over two years and things still are uncertain as to the final outcome (adoption or reunification). On the other hand, everyone who had a child placed with them at the same time as me have adopted. Again, you just never know. You have to know what you can and cannot handle. And if you can't handle uncertainty, fost-adopt is not the best choice.