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Give your mom some time. I remember when I searched my mom was super supportive. Then my first mom didn't want anything to do with me and the angry momma bear came out. Mom was intensly hurt because for 26 years she had promised me that my first mom would want to know me and then I didn't even get a letter back from my first mom.
It isn't fair that we get caught in the middle of all of the emotions when we have so many of our own and when we were the only ones that didn't make any choices. Hang in there and remember to keep doing things with your mom just like you have before.
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First mom to the amazing Kiddo and adopted adult.
1-4-2009 Mom and I visit Kiddo despite the bad weather. He really loved the blue mittens I made him and even helped me plan my living room. Apparently Hot Wheels wallpapper is the way to go.
2-16-2009 I got a promotion, that comes with a raise. Mom and Dad are visiting and we're going to Al's for pie to celebrate.
4-27-2009 Dad surprises me with a Lady Ugly Stick (an awesome fishing rod that is pink) and a 2nd Iowa Light Artillery Battery jacket. I'm a lucky girl!
5-30-2009 Kiddo turns five. It is hard to believe he is that old already, it seems like just yesterday he was being born. I was at peace for the first time on his birthday, what a nice feeling.
6-13&14 2009 A cannon live fire in Casper WY. We got third place and I got to see Devil's Tower for the first time, it was pretty awesome.
7-4-2009 Amelia the kitten comes to live with me and Liz. Talk about jealousy, Liz will adjust though.
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