[Mil]

[quote]I wasn't the one who didn't take precautions and got pregnant when it wasn't the 'right time', nor did I make the decision to allow DD to be adopted but I've given everything I've got to taking her place/QUOTE]

I too hope that we took that statement wrong!

But anyhoo, I think you just need to give both you mom and your bmother time. Reunion brings up a lot of insecurities in everyone. But when people begin to find their place and realize that there's room and enough love for everyone, things tend to smooth out.

I agree with cetalley - sit down with your mom and tell her you're not out to replace her and that nothing can ever change the fact that she was the one to nurture you all these years. Reunion is a scary time for everyone! But it's also wonderful and a time you will never forget. Enjoy!