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adoptee in need of advice from adoptive and birth moms
I recently have found my birth mother and we are starting this new wonderful relationship. She knows that I am not looking for another mother but really want a relationship with her. My adoptive mom is having a very hard time with our reunion. She feels very betrayed and hurt by me finding my bmom. I can tell my bmom is also struggling because she sees what she has missed in my life and it makes her really sad. She was very young when she gave me up and made the best decision. I love both of my moms and want everyone to be happy. I don't know how I can help them. This is suppose to be a very happy time in my life but my amom is making this very hard for me. Any advice???? Thanks so much.
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