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Old 12-31-2008, 11:31 AM
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she thought a couple of letters would give you closure?!! wtf! i'm sorry, but she sounds very selfish, as in thinking your bdaughter is hers, and only hers, and i wouldn't doubt that she thinks her bdaughter should think that she is her only mother.

your bdaughter is 23. she shouldn't have to worry about her amom's feelings. her amom had 23 years with her...the amom can handle a little discomfort for a while now.

hopefully that discomfort will fade away and you three can have a healthy relationship. she should feel grateful to you-after all, you gave her your daughter to raise and love.
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