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The benefits are sometimes equal to the challenges.
If a bio child with little to no issues brings home a good report card, there is a little to celebrate....but when a kid with special needs who is suspended regularly, and was academically behind when they arrived...and who also struggles with anything requiring effort....when that kid learns a letter or a single math concept the celebration is monumental, and when that same kid starts getting all A's Well, it's nothing short of miraculous.
The thing is, with hard work, long suffering and effort comes rewards....almost daily. But it's necessary that the child is a good fit with your family. Pay attention to the personality traits as much as the behaviors...
And look in this forum to see the "what did you do right" thread for more good advice.
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