I know first hand what you are going through. I was 21 mother of 2 and pregnate. You can get all the advise you want from people but you have to listen to your heart. I chose adoption. It was hard at first but when I really sat down and thought about it, it was the right thing to do not only for him but also for my other 2 children. I was not finacially able to take care of 3 kids. I do think about him every day but it does get easier. I use an open adoption agency where I picked the parents and got letters all the time, but unfoturtenly the agency I went through is now close so the last picture and letter I got he was in the 2nd grade and now he is 12. Just listen to your heart it will lead you in the right direction.
