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Old 12-30-2008, 06:35 AM
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I am so sorry Janey! I understand that pain that never really seems to go away. I would like to say that in reunion it does, but it has not for me. Maybe it is because I have not gotten out of "the cage. But men especially do not get it.
My DH yesterday was mad when I got home from work because a friend called and had a bag of gently used clothes and wanted me to come and go through them for my 5 yo. Dh says "I have been home with them all day" -----Yeah---so what. I do that all the time.

But back to you. Although most of the time we can keep the pain at a low moan. Some days something triggers it and it comes back and slaps us in the face. I wish that I really could get over it and move on, like many people have told me to do.......but oh well.
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