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This isn't just about her, it's about me too!
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AMEN. You hit the nail on the head with this comment. You are absolutely right. I'm proud that you have realized this so quickly and can state it.
It astounds me how so many of us here
NEVER fail to be shocked, disbelieving, and hurt by our b-mom's ignoring us month after month, year after year. Seems like we would learn not to hope or expect anything- but unfortunately our hearts don't learn like our brains do. When the heart is involved- wishing and hoping is difficult to control............and resulting pain and hurt when the hopes are not met seems to be never-ending. I wish there was something we could do about it.
I wrote my b-mom a hundred letters I never sent to her- and they helped for a while- but not anymore. The whole thing stinks.
It may not help much..........but I do know exactly how you feel.