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Old 12-24-2008, 03:50 PM
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Hey Quantum!!! Merry Christmas!!!

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I'd been curious, what did this girl look like that he was finally 'able' to fall in love with?
You'll never guess.
She looks kinda like me.
Enough like me that it's kind of weirded my husband out as well


:-) There's this saying in AlAnon. If you line up ten codependents and then have an Alcoholic walk along and talk to each one; within five minutes he/she will know what buttons to push.

IMO - I think it's the same with nonrecovering people; those ill people we once loved. After we've moved on; gotten hip to the crapolio....they keep running the same games on someone else (as well as on themselves). And it's so good to be on the other side of that (for the most part anyway)....to be able to look back and see what it was and what it is not now.

So glad your life is full of joy today! :-)
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