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Old 12-19-2008, 10:50 AM
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There has to be a strong reason to suddenly move foster children from one foster home to another one. DHS in your area doesn't just up and move kids for no reason.

If you were the one to put your foot down about them being moved, you shouldn't have. It should be the foster mom who does that. You won't want to hear this but you need to stay out of it.

I realize that you said it is your best friend, but stepping in like it sounds happened isn't going to do your friend, or you any good.

Are the girls moving to a relative placement? Had your friend asked earlier for them to be moved? There may be a lot (and I would say there most likely is) about the case that you are not aware of.

I understand that you want to help her. You can best do this by comforting her after the kids are moved.
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