[cetalley]

Originally Posted by Kat-L

Well..it's true..God made him. And your foster/adopt son is who he is. Whether he's straight, gay or bi-sexual, he is who he is. Knowing a gay couple or having a gay babysitter can't change your sexuality. Playing with dolls or dancing and dressing up can't make you gay just like playing sports can't make you straight. At 7, he likes what he likes. I doubt it has anything to do with his sexuality. There are some children who recognize they are somehow "different" at a young age but that's not always the case.

My (almost 2) year old foster/adopt son plays with purses, dolls & strollers. Making him play with trucks when he wants to stroll his baby would make him frustrated but it would NOT make him straight.

It's best, for your little one, to not focus on who he'll want to marry. Just let him feel his feelings. But be ready and willing to accept him regardless of his sexuality. You can't change who he'll love-regardless of how you parent him. If he feels you don't approve of him, he'll try to hide his feelings or bury them deep and this will result in more problems for him. You want him to be happy, right? So tell him you'll love him no matter who he marries.

I MUST AGREE....I must ask only one thing...What is the issue...Do you not LOVE him regardless of which sexual behavior he was blessed with?????????? I always told my son(29 yrs.old) I do not care whom he decides he wants to become or whom he becomes it with....AS long as he is happy! A mother can always look into their childs eyes(biological or otherwise) and tell if their child is happy. Sexual behavior, color, and material , made no difference to me...I only want to see in his eyes he is happy. I wish you much luck...just love him...no matter what...isn't that what WE all want?