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Originally Posted by sak9645
Remember that it is NOT an ethical adoption if:
a) You circumvent the adoption laws of the child's country.
b) You circumvent the adoption laws of your own country.
c) You circumvent the immigration laws of your own country.
Sharon
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Sorry for the misunderstanding, I do not speak very well english and it's hard to translate concepts and words when they are to be use with caution.
When I said "bend" I didn't mean breaking laws or doing things clearly against the laws of a country.
But ethic and laws are not the same things, laws are not always ethical and that's why they change years after years. Torture doesn't seems like ethical to me, but I've being told it's kind of legal in USA. Prostitution and slavery are legal in some countries but who can say they are ethical and it's ok to have a slave in theses countries because you respect the law?
But sorry again, I have not in mind to break any laws.
But respecting the adoptions laws of the child country, your country and immigration laws doesn't always make an ethical adoption. It's the case of HAITI by example, and a few other countries.
So the problem is that I do not know what to do.
Your a) b) c) is not a real help, but I agree with you that laws are important to respect, and they are important guidelines.