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Old 12-17-2008, 08:06 AM
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On a more serious note though, my inability to say "no" cost me two children. In that way, it is heartwrenching.

And how we regret that.. and how we punish ourselves..
And we need to forgive ourselves.. need it’s a need.. so we can just get on with it..
The rest of our lives..
And it is like the gifts.. we try and do it perfect.. but we can’t.. circumstances dictate a lot..

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I have always liked the 12th Step. Carrying the message to others. That's what we're doing in here isn't it? Carrying a message of freedom and hope to those women like us. Such a good thing that.

Codependency is my core learning.. I do not addict on food or drugs or whatever any more.. I addict on mind things.. sometimes bad mind things.. so it does keep me on track coming here and working my twelfth step.. doing the AW..
And I love it.. I just love the mind.. and I want to pass on what I know.. what I have learned since we first met Janey..

Love Jackie
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