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I think you're probably right...
My idea to cut off contact does not stem from a real desire to stop the relationship, but maybe just to be taken seriously. It's a dramatic step, and perhaps I want to take it because I feel like my bfamily isn't really hearing me. And of course there is the less than noble motive in that I want my bdad to be angry with my bsister for having ruined this reunion ( because for all intensive purposes, she has made it very difficult) I don't want her to get away with it. How many years should I take her abuse? What, am I just supposed to idly wait and bide my time and take all of her crap until SHE decides she wants a relationship? What about MY needs?
I feel stuck in this... and my anger is really beginning to take its toll...
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