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i agree with all the posts, and yes you have done more than enough to try to develop a relationship with your bsister.
I wouldn't close the door on your bfather and bfamily though, but make it clear you are stepping back due to the bsister behaviour, and let them come to you. Let them know that you are still around for them if they want to keep in touch.
Regarding your bsister she doesn't seem to have the maturity to deal with the situation, so i would write to both your bfather and bsister. write to you bsister and tell her that you understand that it is hard for her and when she is ready to build a relationship with you, you will be there. The reason I say to write to her one last time is purely because in a few years I suspect she will regret her behaviour and when she has matured hopefully she will see this all differantly and if she thinks the door is still open with you she will know that she can approach you at a later point.
Send that letter then move on.
I wish you the best of luck no matter what you decide to do
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