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I have to agree that I imagine the first months are probably really hard. Our adoption is semi-open and the nice thing is that I send my letters and pictures to the adoption agency and when the bmom is up to it, she can pick them up or they'll forward them to her. At irst my feelings were hurt that they sat for quite awhile, but it's her deal and not mine.
I'm not sure what parameters you set up for the OA, but I'd let her take the lead a little bit.
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