I found my birth mom online about a year after I found out I was adopted and a few months after I really started to search, so I was lucky. I did not grow up knowing I was adopted and do feel blessed to have my birth family in my life now. It seems like I am really hurting my adoptive parents alot by having such constant contact with them though and that is the last thing I want to do.
Good luck with your search for your birth sister
