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It is so hard to know you have siblings and be terrified to contact them because you do not want to cause them any pain.
Are you still in contact with b-mother? The mutual friend? I would try that route first and if you are still drawing a blank on your b-father then...
Consider the options, go with what is right to you. I had a confidential intermediary contact my siblings...it did not go well and I was devastated but they also had a lot on their plate and I am still holding out hope they will come around (but not too much hope).
I have also read many stories about how great the reunion between siblings went. You will never know until you do it, be positive but also prepared for monumental pain as well.
I do believe everyone has the right to know their family, even if it requires a direct contact with someone who never knew about you.
Kind regards,
Dickons
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