it just happend to us. ds was 4.5 so we thought we were "in the clear" lol...but no dice. baby a came anyway. i cried when i got the call....i didn't expect that....but the emotions that overcame me when i thought about my son's brother needing a home were too much. i could NOT say no. i realized that day, she could have 12 more kids...and if they all needed a home, i guess i'd parent 12 more children. for me, it is all about the siblings, i will take in whoever comes along and trust God that i will grow some more patience.....lol...and maybe a money tree.
new baby is such a blessing....it is neat to watch the two brothers interact...they are so similar.