[lucyjoy]

I think you do have to recognize the positive steps. She got your message, apoligized, suggested a solution, all very appropriate.

I would either at this point, allow her to get another ride, or agree to take her as long as her attitude toward you was civil.

I use to take my son to work for free if he was civil and charged him cab fare if he was nasty. That way, he could keep his job but realize that rudeness has a price.

Pick whatever works best for YOU.