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well i hope my son pops up soon, but he is in full denial mode of me. I would LOVE to hear from him, even if it is because he wants something from me. At this point, that would be better than this exile he has placed me in. Maybe your daughter is, in her own way, feeling things out, seeing how things are around the holidays with you, and this is all a very very good thing. My son is struggling with trying to stay sober on his own and I know it must not be easy for him-he is so fragile that I do believe he feels me to be just another distraction at this time. however, I sure hope he contacts me soon, so hang in there, and value every moment you have with your daughter. I plan on trying to tell my son exactly what you said, that I cannot imagine my world without him, but I just don't know if even that will shake him loose. I hope everything works out with your mom.
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