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Have I ever wondered?? I wondered all the time, and when we reunited, they were open and honest with him about everything but the very strangest thing. His a-dad told him that I was really young (why in the world they did not think 17 was really young is beyond me) but they told him I was only 13 when I had him. My goodness, I was still a virgin at 13! I thought it was just the strangest thing when they both knew I had just turned 17 a couple of weeks before giving birth. (my gynecologist arranged the adoption and knew my history and of course told them-in the days before privacy laws)His a-dad told me he thought it would make me "sound better" whatever the hell that means. He also told my son that maybe I was raped???? So of course my sweet son was afraid to ask me about his father, and of course I don't blame him. His bfather is a total loser, but we were both only 16 and totally in love/lust and he was created out of love, young and stupid love, but love all the same. Just thinking about this now makes my blood boil-for them to tell him such outright lies I have no idea why they did it still to this day. Good luck in reunion, go as slow as possible, even when you want things to happen fast, my son is not talking to me now 1 year later....
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