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(((HUGS)))))
Been there, done that and going through it AGAIN. For the 2nd time, I have had to request another child to be moved. I thought I would try another "older" child, Mr. Peabody is 6 and my previous was Mr. Investigator (7).
He has major major issues stealing, lieing, tantruming, you name it. They are doing a therapeutic staffing, to get him moved.
I know how you feel. It hurts and its depressing. You go through could I have done it longer or what could I have done differently. The answer is always the same, no you cannot continue at that pace and you couldn't of done anything different.
Trust me I know how some of the small kids can be. I had a 10 month screamer and tantrumer. My Mom said how bad could he be, until I left him with her for 2 hours. She quickly changed her tune.
But I too would have loved to be a fly on the wall at the speech place.
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2 boys
Bio Mom to:
Mr. Don Juan - The Ladies Man
Foster Mom:
Mr. Baby Don King - placed 8/08 - R/U
Former Foster Mom and Dad to:
Mr. Investigator - 8/07-5/08 - Moved to therapeutic (Miss him greatly)
Mr. Home Run Hitter - 5/08 - Moved to relative
Ms. Puff-Balls - 5/08 - Moved to relative
Ms. Pumkin - 6/08 - Back to Dad
Mr. El Gato - placed 6/08-7/08 - To a not so good choice non-relative
Ms. Beautiful Angel - 8/08 - Home, Came back into care 10/08, Went to another foster home.
Mr. Baby Stewie - 07/08 - 8/08 - Went back Home
Mr. Peabody - 10/08 - 12/08 - Disrupted - Went back to previous FP for adoption
Mr. Touchy - placed 8/07-02/09 - Had moved to another FH, because of my personal issues  , hoping that one day I can get him back. I love him, more than I have words...
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