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Originally Posted by bumblebeeskies
If what I'm about to ask is a horrible idea, please don't flame me, I was just wondering... Would it be a bad idea in cases like these to separate the kids? I do understand that staying w/ siblings is important. However, if OP went above and beyond, and did all she could do, how is another fm going to be able to do more? There will still be two children, the boy still won't be able to be the sole focus of attention. Would it be better to put him w/ a ff that has no other fc?
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I think you have a valid point. I think siblings should almost always be kept together, but in some cases it maybe in their best interests. This maybe one of them. If it would help him heal and not make things worse it maybe worth looking into. He needs a lot of care and so does the baby it maybe more than one family (single couple whatever) can possibly provide.
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