Kudlz1977,
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I am wondering IF they would of told the truth would the judge have maybe questioned it and requested that the BP's come into court. We were coerced into signing an extra-juducial consent........I am not looking to take the child back nor put up a fight. I am just wondering if the AP's had put that they came to us asking for our child if maybe the judge would have asked for us to appear in court and we then would have gotten a post adoption like we should of been entitled to.
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It sounds from your initial post that you are questioning the legality of the adoption process re. your children. But then I read your response post which states you are not looking to fight the relinquishment.
Since those are two different issues (my opinion only) I am wondering if perhaps you are struggling with the understandable grief of the loss of your child through your anger over the way the adoption was handled.
As I'm reading Jackie's response, that is the impression I am getting in what she's saying and I have to say I agree with how she's seeing it.
Please understand that is not an attack or judgement of you. This stuff takes its toll on a person. Believe me I understand that. Relinquishment brings great emotional imbalance and we often attach that to other things in order to blind ourselves from it.
As you clearly state, you are not looking for a fight; not looking in any way to undo what has been done. So perhaps you are trying to sort through the powerful emotions left behind from relinquishing your son and are attaching those emotions to the legal aspects of your situation.
There are good folk in here who can help you with that. People on all sides of the triad who are compassionate and caring and most of all......wise.
If your questions are actually legal ones though, IMO, there are some very well informed women in here who could be of more assistance than I. They will surely spot this thread and pick up on it.
Regards,