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Old 12-08-2008, 02:31 PM
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I continue to think of you and I think you are leaving very soon...
I want to emphasize what others have said. Get help for yourself...REALLY. It's very polarizing to live with AD (I certainly hope it's not a problem for you...but you should parent as though it will be at the beginning). You can feel crazy and if your DH starts to think you're crazy - WOW - it can feel so alone. I do think that we've been on the verge of divorce a couple of times. If you aren't leaving right away try to set up an appointment with an Attachment therapist or even an IA clinic therapist. Just let your DH and yourself hear about the signs and what can happen...and be open to it.
Someone above mentioned expectations also - mine are still too high...and that can make it harder.
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