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the more I think about it the more pre-birth matching and paying expenses seem to be unethical and coercive (even if its not always intentional). I'll stick with expenses for now since thats what this thread was about.
Its hard to say what the solution should be. I've sat her typing and deleting awhile now trying to come up with a way that helping a pregnant woman with expenses could not be coercive and each plan I have to "fix" it doesn't hold up to scrutiny.
Unless someone can come up with a way to eliminate the coercion I do not think adoption agencies or PAPs should pay expenses. I do think they should refer to places that offer maternity support services buthave no connection to adoption.
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