[yorkiegirl]

Boulderbabe:

The court in our case did not set the number of visits.I went to court everytime.The judge simply stated the kids stay in foster care and stay in the home they are in.
The team meetings are where visits were decided.If I didnt agree which I didnt always with times or dates it was a huge inconvience I was told this is how its gonna be.I may not hae been forced but I was new and felt forced, when they voted and all but us agreed we didnt get a choice.My husband gets his son every other weekend.We have always gone together to get him.One of the three visits were set at 15 minutes before we were to leave and get him.I asked for a different time or possibly the day before I was told NO absolutely not ask his mom to change her time, which she did.
Now with new foster parents they refused to do 3 and are doing one per week no phone calls.We had to call every night 7 days a week.It does happen it DID happen and NO court ordered this.