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Are you getting through to him? Unfortunately, no one can answer that. V probably couldn't answer that. But keep talking. I know with my boys, they were more receptive if it wasn't a "sit down and lets talk" kind of situation. We did some of our best talking while on walks, or while they were in bed and I was sitting on the edge of their bed and the lights were off, or while driving in the car, or while building with legos. Not as threatening I guess.
Why does he want to go to Thailand? Again, no one can answer that. Have you read the book "I hate you, don't leave me"? I haven't read it either, but the title sums up our kids. They push and push and then when they succeed, they freak out.That could be it.
Just keep talking and keep loving. And keep hoping he is internalizing it but know that he is learning from you whether you ever see it or not.
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