
12-08-2008, 10:07 AM
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I am going through the same thing. My little one had zip done on her case for 7 wks, then suddenly the bios got it together and have been working their plan diligently for 2 mos. The magistrate is even impressed! I really like these parents too and they are very nice, thankful and appreciative to me.
Thing is I will miss her so much! Her timeline home is approx Feb/Mar. I will be supportive because I am happy for everyone involved but still, it is sad on my part!
I have learned to focus on the next placement - as when she leaves me that opens up my home for another baby.
I too hope they keep in touch, but it's up to them. As foster parents sometimes we are just a stepping stone in that child's life - and overall that's fine with me, but still we are human and do grieve when they leave us.
So I have no words to help you feel better. Just know you are not alone........
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~Maura~
*Mom to 4
STBA baby G
FFS baby I 9/06-4/07 went to Grandma
FFD baby A 4/07-8/07 reunified
FFD baby L 9/07-5/08 moved to fost/adopt home
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