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[quote=vegaschristina]Here's my thought, and I'm an adoptive mom. I don't understand how a bmom can give up her child. I can't imagine having that much love to be able to make that kind of sacrifice, knowing it will bring a lifetime of pain.QUOTE]
Because they may be giving up thier child but they are doing it for a reason and in my belief most of the reasons are they just cannot care for the child for whatever reason. I don't think it's our place to really understand or even know WHY they are doing it. All birthmoms in my opinion need our support, I admire birth moms. Thanks to a girls selfless decission I am a mom, thanks to her knowing what she was not able to do made me a mom.
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Found out about KB early Feb 07, birthmom is a friend
Found out KB was a girl in April 07 (I already knew)
Retained attorney May 07
KB born 8-11-07 after 55 hours of labor, emergency c-section, we roomed in
KB came home 8-13-07
Did not become final until 7-3-08
Birth certificate came 11-28-08!!
FAKT and SNAP classes finished Feb. 09
Homestudy submitted March 15th 09
Moving to our brand new house for more room in May 2009
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