WITH, foundoutat50......She is right , one can either learn from their upbringing and the "cards we are dealt", by becoming better, more compassionate person, whom lives life to the fullest, or we can choose to continue the same path, and do nothing! I am a firstmom, whom was given NO CHOICE. I can only pray and hope MY ACTIONS , had no bad effects on my twin sons. I cannot change my nightmare, but I most definately learned from it...I never had ANY more children, I was 25 at the time. Please be thankful you had a great life and wonderful parents, and try to build from there. Keep coming we would love to hear more !
